There is a huge misconception of air signs being circulated in the online astrology community.
Air signs are not the most emotionally aloof zodiac signs. Have you read the book The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman? Every zodiac sign, and every element they belong to whether fire, water, earth or air, expresses love in different ways.
However, the stereotype placed on air signs, specifically Aquarius being overly detached and aloof when it comes to relationships is complete bullshit. Here’s why!
Aquarius is the astrological symbol of friendship. Aquarius invites everyone from all walks of life to be their friends without judgement. Friendships is also the foundation of lasting love!
Without friendship, love is built on lust, infatuation and temporary sexual passion. My parents are both air signs. Two Gemini’s who are about to celebrate over 54 years of marriage! Their testimony of lasting love is based upon the strength of their friendship. Not their sexual chemistry although they had seven children and that obviously wasn’t an issue.
More importantly, lasting relationships are built on a combination of what every zodiac sign has to offer, but none of which would be possible without the foundation of friendship and that is what the air sign tribe Libra, Aquarius and Gemini bring to the table when it comes to love, intimacy and relationships.
In addition, Libra’s stand for marriage. How is it that they can stand for relationships and marriage and be aloof at the same time? Is it because they can love without possessing, unlike a water sign (Pisces, Cancer, Scorpio)?
Libra is the sign that rules marriage. This is probably why October is one of the biggest wedding months. Libra marriages are, not surprisingly, very much about balance and give and take from both partners. The relationship is a real priority to you and your man.
Are Libra’s one of the best candidates for relationships because they are gifted without the insight of balance? They know when to step back and give their partner space and when to shower them with love, attention and affection. Unlike fire signs who love too much, too fast without “thinking.”
I’d much prefer balance. I prefer endurance over short lived high intervals. Air signs aren’t fast and furious like fire signs, nor are we slow and overly cautious like earth signs (Virgo, Capricorn & Taurus) We are all and in-between. We are chameleon, shapeless and formless.
Gemini’s bring a child-like enthusiasm and innocence to love and relationships. Gemini gives freedom for you to keep your individuality and still be in a relationship with them.
Gemini energy gives variety, countless point of views and opinions to relationships to ensure it’s not one-sided and remains multi-faceted. Gemini brings fun to boring routine’s in relationships. Gemini energy forces love to see the Yin and the Yang, making us more open to love in totality. Accepting both good and bad parts of ourselves and our partners.
If a water sign says they love you, it may be manipulative and insincere. If a fire sign say they love you, it may be just out of momentary lust and passion or to get sex from you! If a Gemini says they love you. Congratulations, it’s REAL love!
Stop telling us we don’t know how to be vulnerable or affectionate!
If you’re an air sign reading this, don’t accept the limited interpretation mainstream astrology makes you out to be. Yes, you can be both cerebral and emotional. You can be intelligent, logical, rational and be emotional, empathetic, affectionate and selfless at the same damn time!
We are not one dimensional beings. We are fragments of everything and everyone. Our birth charts can give us an idea of what elements we are lacking. My new astrology channel on YouTube Zodiac Wars main goal is to harness the energy of the elements you lack in your birth chart so that you can become more whole.
I personally lack fire in my chart. I attract fire signs (Aries, Sagittarius, Leo) because I need to learn from them. I need to show my love a little more, I need to be fearless in the face of obstacles blocking my path to accomplishing my goals.
I need fire signs to teach me to be more vulnerable. And I need to teach fire signs how to be lead by true love, not lust, temporary passion, infatuation or sex. I am being taught by fire signs everyday. I am harnessing their energy and becoming a better person. Learn from the energies of other signs to achieve self mastery. That’s what astrological alchemy is all about!
Scorpio is more emotionally detached than Aquarius.
Yes! I said it. Scorpio’s, the masters of illusion. A Scorpio friend of mines is a champion in world Poker tournaments. Why? He can literally shut off his emotions at the drop of a dime.
He has the power to hide everything he feels in an inner vault no one will ever have access to. He is not naturally vulnerable. He is naturally paranoid. Always sizing up everyone and labeling them as having bad intentions towards him.
He is tit for tat, eye for an eye and will seldomly tell you who he really is or what he really wants. He has few close friends, and is generally cautious about making new friends, unlike the friendly, non-judgmental Aquarius.
Scorpios keep a part of themselves shut off. Who gets access? Not many. Maybe not any! How is it they are labeled an emotional sign when all they do is hide? I find it taxing trying to get close to a Scorpio. It’s a battle some may have the patience and grit to fight for, but not me!
So there you have it. Scorpio is the most emotionally detached, aloof and paranoid zodiac sign! What do you think? Tell me your experience with both air signs and Scorpios… do you agree? Comment below!
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By Janell Hihi copyright@2017