What Every Women Should Consider Before Having a Child Before Marriage

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Stop feeling bad for wanting to be a wife and have a family. You’re just being a WOMAN.

Personally I believe a women should never, ever, ever, have a child out of wedlock. Statistically, it’s not beneficial to the women or the child. Unfortunately, it’s become a trend and societal has suffered tremendously as a result.

Today 1 in 4 children under the age of 18 — a total of about 17.2 million — are being raised without a father.

Religion has nothing to do with it. In fact, I’m not a religious person at all.

It’s a fact that women are vulnerable in society. Thankfully in America, we have the LAW to assist us to ensure we get what we deserve if a man decides to neglect his responsibilities. However, an unwed women with children misses out on the protection of the law only married women benefit from.

The Law, unlike some of these basic women out here with NO standards… understands that men need to know there are consequences for their actions in order to behave.

It’s human nature. Women are the same. A women would run all over a man if he let her. Real men don’t tolerate nonsense from women and vice versa.

If a man asks a women to have a child for him before asking for her hand in marriage, he wants to trap her and take her off the market.

Even though he has no intentions of staying with her, he knows that once she is labeled a “baby mama” it will be more difficult for quality men to take her seriously. He will also always have access to her.

This type of men most likely goes around collecting baby mama’s ruining women and children’s lives all over the country. It’s a pathetic and narcissistic pathology that is happening because women are allowing it.

Have you noticed lately that you receive more baby shower invitations then you do marriage invitations?

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Nearly 40 percent of babies now born in America are to unmarried women. The birthrate for unmarried women in their 20s is higher than for teens. Sociologists say that these new mothers often assume that the baby will “cement” the relationship. But these arrangements rarely last.

Feminism Promotes Single Motherhood

Don’t let these so-called feminist women tell you that you can do it all on your own and you don’t need a man. You can’t do it alone successfully. Look at the statistics, single mothers are living in poverty and their children are suffering as a result. If their not living in poverty, they’re suffering psychological issues due to a lack of father and stability in their lives.

An ex wife with a child whose father is active in the child’s life is not the same as a baby mama, let’s not get it twisted!

If you had one child out of wedlock, forgive yourself and never repeat the same mistake again. 

Marriage is about security and ensuring you bare children with a man who committed to you and made vows before his friends and family regarding his love and dedication for you.

I don’t care how high the divorce rate is or what these loose millennials are doing out here… Children deserve to be born into a life with two parents who love each other and will at least try to give that child the loving, and committed family it deserves!

Sure, unmarried people stay together for years and have children. But secretly, that women who settles will resent not being a wife, regardless of how much she pretends she doesn’t believe in marriage.

A mama bear protects her cubs and ensures their safety and security. She doesn’t lay down with a boyfriend, have unprotected sex and “Accidentally” have a baby uncertain how her boyfriend will react.

Typically, he’ll be upset. He reminds the girlfriend that she’s just a girlfriend and he’s not ready to have children. Then there’s the abortions, resentment and worst of all, a total waste of time and LIFE.

Single mothers are much more likely to be poor than married couples. The poverty rate for single-mother families in 2016 was 35.6%, nearly five times more than the rate (6.6%) for married-couple families.

Among children living with mother only, 40% lived in poverty. In contrast, only 12% of children in two parent families were counted as poor.

Regardless if we like it or not, every taxpayer in America is paying for men who refuse to get married, provide for their families or pay child support. Its a shame that beta males who go around impregnating women like wild animals with an inability to think before they act is a huge burden on society as a whole!

A majority (59%) of SNAP households with children were single mother households. Only 15% received cash benefits from TANF.22Though a small percentage, they represent more than 90% of all TANF families.

I recommend every lady to get married before you have a child. Secure you’re future. Marriage is a legal protection. It’s not about love or religion. It’s about protecting the investment of your time and the wellbeing of your future children.

By Janell HIhi @Copyright2018

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