The Curse of The Air Signs Libra, Gemini Aquarius: Emotionally Resistant

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Aquarius, Libra and Gemini will drive themselves insane trying to figure out why something doesn’t make sense. 

This can lead to anxiety, compulsive thinking, obsessing and over analyzing everything!

 

Logic rules air signs like emotions rule water signs (Pisces, Cancer, Scorpio).

The issue is logic is only one side of the spectrum regarding overall balanced thinking. Emotion, empathy, sympathy and the ability to feel a situation out is often a challenge for most air signs depending on their overall elements in their birth chart.

The root cause of air signs allergy to emotions is once they emerge within a Libra, Gemini or Aquarius the emotions are so intense the air signs are not sure how to deal with them.

Instead of feeling out those emotions, air signs try to resist them altogether by justifying them with logic. And as the saying goes, what we resist will persist.

What we resist eventually controls us because resistance is such a toxic reaction that it provokes people to go to extremes to prevent the inevitable.

It’s not that air signs can’t feel emotion, their biggest challenge is how to properly channel them.

Water signs know how to use emotion as a tool and air signs should definitely take notes!

Most air signs feel a powerful emotion and tell themselves they don’t want to feel it. It doesn’t make sense to feel it. The feeling is not locked into a definition, it’s just there to be felt, not explained. Air signs simply can’t comprehend that concept!

Each air sign reacts somewhat differently to powerful emotions such as love, jealousy, fear, shame and betrayal…

Gemini avoids feeling strong emotions by trying to communicate why the emotion is… maybe it stems from childhood, a psychological condition, societal programming…

If the Gemini is not able to explain away their feelings or the feelings of others they escape. Gemini is the child of the zodiac and when pressure hits home, Gemini would rather go out and play. They may become inconsistent, disappear for days, give the person provoking their uncomfortable emotions within them the silent treatment. Or worse, they may cheat.

If the Gemini finds out that their partners emotions were insincere, unlike the Aquarius the Gemini may choose to say silent to see how far their partner is willing to go to try to deceive them… and in the meantime, the Gemini is already entertaining other prospects. They emotionally detached from the relationship.

Gemini’s may come off as innocent, naive or immature but they know what’s really going on – sometimes they will communicate with their actions how they really feel about you by totally ghosting you and not having a qualm about it, whatsoever.

Hell, they may be engaged within a month of the break up to a new person. What’s the point of being sad? Gemini’s will get over you and move on fast! It’s not that they never loved you, it’s just that they have the gift of goodbye and remain open to other options. Some think that’s being deceptive, I think it’s incredibly smart! It’s hard to play a Gemini. In the end, you’ll surely realize you were actually the one getting played!

Libra avoids feeling strong emotions by becoming possessive and blaming their partner for imaginary infractions. Libra, one of the most jealous signs of the zodiac has a strong internal need to balance everything out.

Libra’s will mirror their partners to a T. Libra will only give what their partner is willing to give and nothing beyond or extra because everything must be fair and equal. Libra does this with charm and pazzaz and it’s so subtle no one could ever detect it.

I had a Libra friend once say to me, “Don’t get mad, just do exactly what he does to you!”

Libra’s obsession with justice makes them more revengeful than Scorpios believe it or not! Libra’s carry out their revenge with a finesse that only a skilled narcissist could pull off. Try deceiving a Libra… I dare you! They will never forget what you did and make sure you pay for it forever! Similar to America’s justice system.

If you commit a crime it goes on your record and everyone can see it! It’s like a tattoo and everytime you apply for a job or a rental, a crime you committed 10 years ago may be used against you after you paid fines, spent years in jail and paid your dues. The same is true with Libra. They hold on to emotions which allows them to hold grudges like no other! When you cross a Libra, you pay forever.

I know it may not seem that way because of their charm, dashing smiles, fake forgiveness and unmatched beauty – but it’s the harsh truth.

Libra’s replay how others hurt them repeatedly in their heads holding their own selves hostage to pain. Libra’s biggest challenge is to really learn how to forgive to free themselves of toxic emotions.

If it was up to me the Libra would be holding two whips in their hand instead of the scales of justice and lady liberty would be replaced by a prison warden.

If they feel too strongly that their partner is making them jealous or possibly doing them wrong, the Libra will employ every mind game possible to even out the score while using their charm to cover up their vindictive behavior. Libra’s can use the silent treatment or explosive fights in attempt to deal with their feelings… but like every air sign, they must learn how to surrender to their emotions instead.

Aquarius responds to overwhelming emotions using a mixture of both Gemini and Libra tactics but mostly by jumping to conclusions. These conclusions could be a future prophesy of what is about to come. This intuitive flash of the future comes across as irrational to both the Aquarius and their partner.

Of course, Aquarius have deep insight and psychic ability these characteristics directly conflict with their logic, strong intellect and the strong desire to have evidence! To just know something without rhyme or reason drives the Aquarius insane but it’s often the case. Aquarius is a sign that dwells in the future. We represent what is yet to come not what already is. We constantly think about how the behavior and characters of others will affect our future.

Aquarius must spend more time in the present moment!

The Aquarius biggest challenge is to accept their psychic flashes revealing others intentions and motives without going into full investigative mode. However, few Aquarius learn this and most find out in the end that their gut feeling was right.

Aquarius may react as possessive, demanding, manipulative and revenge seeking but the worse reaction is total emotional detachment!

Aquarius would rather not deal with tedious emotions that can’t be explained or justified and would rather compartmentalize them and act as if those emotions don’t exist – or they are insignificant. The Aquarius then becomes cold!

Aquarius would rather end a relationship then be plagued with jealousy, untrustworthiness and bullshit. This may come off as impulsive to others. Too bad the Aquarius doesn’t care how they come off to others. True rebels! Unapologetic.

If you’re dealing with an air sign and you did or said something to trigger their emotions or insecurities be prepared for an ordeal.

The air sign wants to dispose of those emotions immediately – to an air sign holding on to those emotions is intolerable so the air sign will come at the perpetrator from every angle. Most signs say it feels like an attack!

It may come off as if air signs don’t know how to control their emotions. And it’s true they don’t! However, that alone doesn’t make them inefficient, or less than… rather it makes them demand explanations that catches other zodiac signs off guard.

Are you in love with an air sign?

I suggest you be prepared to deal with confrontation. And never under any circumstances try to lie, cover up or later change your story. We remember EVERYTHING and we already did the research – we got the answer… we just want to hear it from you.

To air signs, if it doesn’t make logical sense, it doesn’t matter. Approach us with logic not sappy emotions – especially if we caught you slipping… and if we didn’t already, we will! After all, we gather knowledge, store knowledge and use it to bust through bullshit!

By J.Hihi @Copyright2019

 

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Air Signs Aquarius, Libra & Gemini Are NOT the Most Emotionally Aloof Zodiac Signs: Guess which zodiac sign is?

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There is a huge misconception of air signs being circulated in the online astrology community.

Air signs are not the most emotionally aloof zodiac signs. Have you read the book The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman? Every zodiac sign, and every element they belong to whether fire, water, earth or air, expresses love in different ways.

However, the stereotype placed on air signs, specifically Aquarius being overly detached and aloof when it comes to relationships is complete bullshit. Here’s why!

Aquarius is the astrological symbol of friendship. Aquarius invites everyone from all walks of life to be their friends without judgement. Friendships is also the foundation of lasting love!

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Without friendship, love is built on lust, infatuation and temporary sexual passion. My parents are both air signs. Two Gemini’s who are about to celebrate over 54 years of marriage! Their testimony of lasting love is based upon the strength of their friendship. Not their sexual chemistry although they had seven children and that obviously wasn’t an issue.

More importantly, lasting relationships are built on a combination of what every zodiac sign has to offer, but none of which would be possible without the foundation of friendship and that is what the air sign tribe Libra, Aquarius and Gemini bring to the table when it comes to love, intimacy and relationships.

In addition, Libra’s stand for marriage. How is it that they can stand for relationships and marriage and be aloof at the same time? Is it because they can love without possessing, unlike a water sign (Pisces, Cancer, Scorpio)?

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Libra is the sign that rules marriage. This is probably why October is one of the biggest wedding months. Libra marriages are, not surprisingly, very much about balance and give and take from both partners. The relationship is a real priority to you and your man.

Are Libra’s one of the best candidates for relationships because they are gifted without the insight of balance? They know when to step back and give their partner space and when to shower them with love, attention and affection. Unlike fire signs who love too much, too fast without “thinking.”

I’d much prefer balance. I  prefer endurance over short lived high intervals. Air signs aren’t fast and furious like fire signs, nor are we slow and overly cautious like earth signs (Virgo, Capricorn & Taurus) We are all and in-between. We are chameleon, shapeless and formless.

Gemini’s bring a child-like enthusiasm and innocence to love and relationships. Gemini gives freedom for you to keep your individuality and still be in a relationship with them.

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Gemini energy gives variety, countless point of views and opinions to relationships to ensure it’s not one-sided and remains multi-faceted. Gemini brings fun to boring routine’s in relationships. Gemini energy forces love to see the Yin and the Yang, making us more open to love in totality. Accepting both good and bad parts of ourselves and our partners.

If a water sign says they love you, it may be manipulative and insincere. If a fire sign say they love you, it may be just out of momentary lust and passion or to get sex from you! If a Gemini says they love you. Congratulations, it’s REAL love!

Stop telling us we don’t know how to be vulnerable or affectionate!

If you’re an air sign reading this, don’t accept the limited interpretation mainstream astrology makes you out to be. Yes, you can be both cerebral and emotional. You can be intelligent, logical, rational and be emotional, empathetic, affectionate and selfless at the same damn time!

We are not one dimensional beings. We are fragments of everything and everyone. Our birth charts can give us an idea of what elements we are lacking. My new astrology channel on YouTube Zodiac Wars main goal is to harness the energy of the elements you lack in your birth chart so that you can become more whole.

I personally lack fire in my chart. I attract fire signs (Aries, Sagittarius, Leo) because I need to learn from them. I need to show my love a little more, I need to be fearless in the face of obstacles blocking my path to accomplishing my goals.

I need fire signs to teach me to be more vulnerable. And I need to teach fire signs how to be lead by true love, not lust, temporary passion, infatuation or sex. I am being taught by fire signs everyday. I am harnessing their energy and becoming a better person. Learn from the energies of other signs to achieve self mastery. That’s what astrological alchemy is all about!

Scorpio is more emotionally detached than Aquarius.

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Yes! I said it. Scorpio’s, the masters of illusion. A Scorpio friend of mines is a champion in world Poker tournaments. Why? He can literally shut off his emotions at the drop of a dime.

He has the power to hide everything he feels in an inner vault no one will ever have access to. He is not naturally vulnerable. He is naturally paranoid. Always sizing up everyone and labeling them as having bad intentions towards him.

He is tit for tat, eye for an eye and will seldomly tell you who he really is or what he really wants. He has few close friends, and is generally cautious about making new friends, unlike the friendly, non-judgmental Aquarius.

Scorpios keep a part of themselves shut off. Who gets access? Not many. Maybe not any! How is it they are labeled an emotional sign when all they do is hide? I find it taxing trying to get close to a Scorpio. It’s a battle some may have the patience and grit to fight for, but not me!

So there you have it. Scorpio is the most emotionally detached, aloof and paranoid zodiac sign! What do you think? Tell me your experience with both air signs and Scorpios… do you agree? Comment below!

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By Janell Hihi copyright@2017