Every Zodiac sign has its strengths and weaknesses.
This blog explores the potential reasons as to why your relationship may fail according to the dark side of the Zodiac signs Cancer, Virgo and Libra.
Dark Side Virgo
The number one reason why a Virgo’s relationship will fail is because Virgo’s over analyze the smallest decisions, commitments and arguments. A virgo who is undecided can linger in that indecision for an unreasonable amount of time. The indecision is viewed by their partner as a lack of care, love and commitment. It’s also a turn-off and is perceived as a sign of insecurity and low confidence.
People like people who can make solid decisions in a timely manner. Virgo’s will also fail at relationships because they tend to be overly critical of their partner and everything and everyone else in general. They’ll complain at the restaurant about the smallest details no one else notices. They will complain at work about everything! They will complain to their partner about every little thing they do, wear, say or don’t say!
Virgo will unconsciously make their partner feel inferior and not good enough even if the Virgo loves their partner dearly. Virgo’s can also be too consistent, dry and boring. They may want to do the same things over and over again without exploring new ways to do old things. This allows the relationship to become stale.
Virgo’s can also put their job and ambitious pursuits before their spouse, children and friends which can ruin relationships just because the Virgo’s long hours in the office. Virgo’s who have a career they love will work more than the average person just because it’s what they do. It’s important for Virgo to have a partner who understands that and allows them the time and space to pursue their goals and dreams without feeling neglected.
Dark Side Cancer
Stop trying to play mommy or daddy and just play your part as an equal partner in your relationships.
Your role is not to be a parental figure. Don’t play wife to a boyfriend or devoted girlfriend to a booty call, playboy. Stop baking pies and doing laundry for people who see you sometimes and texts you sometimes.
Basically Cancer, your relationships won’t last because your always doing to much! Pump the breaks, take a deep breathe and hold off on all your nurturing instincts until that level of commitment is reached in your relationships. It’s easy to feel like you’re often used and taken for granted but the truth is no one told you to sacrifice your soul after only being in a relationship for 6 months. No one feels sorry for you. Make better decisions and ration out what your willing to give to your partner over time. Ask yourself are you self-sacrificing to make yourself feel that you are the giver in the relationship only to turn around and complain that you’re being taken advantage of? Are you a masochist? Do you enjoy being used?
Too emotional and changeable.
I know your ruled by the moon and it controls your water element like the tides in the ocean but you’ve gotta get a hold of yourself and stop being so deep too fast. You’ll scare people off and your relationships won’t last very long. Be careful what you do and say when you’re drunk with emotion because you can hurt people to the core. You have a psychic ability to look into people’s soul effortlessly and calling your loved ones out in hurtful ways can destroy your relationships. When your partner asks for space to be alone instead of activating your silent treatment to retaliate, use that time alone to calm yourself down by mixing emotions with logic to ground yourself.
Cancer’s are overly emotional by nature. When they are triggered, they can go from zero to 100 real quick! Cancer’s are the most booked criminals for passion crimes according to the FBI’s crime statistics. They may say and do things that are so sadistic out of anger that they chase people away forever. They think they’ll always be forgiven, and when they aren’t forgiven they become victims seeking pity.
Dear Cancer, you need a partner who understands that you need space to workout your moodiness and emotions and they need to respect that. If they smoother you and block you from retreating into your crab shell, there will be hell to be paid. Let your need for time and space for your sanity be known to your partner otherwise your relationship will fail.
Dark Side Libra
Stop looking for a partner to balance your libra scales. Here’s a better idea, balance out your own scales with self-love and self-fulfillment before you get into a relationship demanding your partner to “balance” you out.
Libra is seriously looking for their other half. They can’t be whole alone. The symbol of their zodiac sign is “relationships” They need relationships like normal people need water. This is why they stand for relationships and they are ruled by Venus. It’s all about their addiction to love. It’s not that they have a profound knowledge of love and relationships that other zodiac signs lack. In fact, that’s far from the truth.
Libra’s can be too focused on shallow, surface beauty that they choose a trophy wife or a playboy as a husband/wife instead of a partner that they are truly compatible with. If a Libra’s partner gains weight or looks begins to fade they will criticize and mock them. Libra’s like everything to stay beautiful and it’s an unrealistic expectation. A libra man will pay for his wife to get bigger boobs and a face lift without hesitation.
Libra, your relationship will fail because you think your partner has the responsibility to constantly make you happy and when they don’t you feel justified in acting like a child by enacting the silent treatment and holding petty grudges. in the heat of the moment, revenge is not beneath you either. Nor is lashing out a verbal masacre ripping your partner to shred with your unstoppable charisma, undefeated wit and malignant sarcasm.
The inability to forgive is a huge relationship hurdle many libra’s fail to get over. They can’t let go of the past and better yet it serves as an excuse for them to get away with bad behavior.
Libra’s must learn how to be happy for their partner and their friends instead of being envious of them when they get ahead in life. If the Libra would only stop comparing their worth to others they’d be a lot happy and healthier in their relationships. Not everything is a competition. Not everything needs to be discussed and verbally dissected either. Libra you need to learn when to be quiet, back down and let go. Otherwise your relationship is doomed. Don’t be threatened by your partner’s success or ambition, be focused on your own.
Libra’s escape facing themselves through dodging responsibility, reckless relationships, liquor, drugs and SHOPPING. They are blessed with an incredible fashion sense and the debt that comes along with their shopping addiction is the curse. This can ruin relationships. Dear Libra friends living in their darkside please face yourself and avoid using escape routes and your life and your relationships will improve drastically.
By Janell Hihi Copyright @2018