Air Signs Aquarius, Libra & Gemini Are NOT the Most Emotionally Aloof Zodiac Signs: Guess which zodiac sign is?

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There is a huge misconception of air signs being circulated in the online astrology community.

Air signs are not the most emotionally aloof zodiac signs. Have you read the book The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman? Every zodiac sign, and every element they belong to whether fire, water, earth or air, expresses love in different ways.

However, the stereotype placed on air signs, specifically Aquarius being overly detached and aloof when it comes to relationships is complete bullshit. Here’s why!

Aquarius is the astrological symbol of friendship. Aquarius invites everyone from all walks of life to be their friends without judgement. Friendships is also the foundation of lasting love!

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Without friendship, love is built on lust, infatuation and temporary sexual passion. My parents are both air signs. Two Gemini’s who are about to celebrate over 54 years of marriage! Their testimony of lasting love is based upon the strength of their friendship. Not their sexual chemistry although they had seven children and that obviously wasn’t an issue.

More importantly, lasting relationships are built on a combination of what every zodiac sign has to offer, but none of which would be possible without the foundation of friendship and that is what the air sign tribe Libra, Aquarius and Gemini bring to the table when it comes to love, intimacy and relationships.

In addition, Libra’s stand for marriage. How is it that they can stand for relationships and marriage and be aloof at the same time? Is it because they can love without possessing, unlike a water sign (Pisces, Cancer, Scorpio)?

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Libra is the sign that rules marriage. This is probably why October is one of the biggest wedding months. Libra marriages are, not surprisingly, very much about balance and give and take from both partners. The relationship is a real priority to you and your man.

Are Libra’s one of the best candidates for relationships because they are gifted without the insight of balance? They know when to step back and give their partner space and when to shower them with love, attention and affection. Unlike fire signs who love too much, too fast without “thinking.”

I’d much prefer balance. I  prefer endurance over short lived high intervals. Air signs aren’t fast and furious like fire signs, nor are we slow and overly cautious like earth signs (Virgo, Capricorn & Taurus) We are all and in-between. We are chameleon, shapeless and formless.

Gemini’s bring a child-like enthusiasm and innocence to love and relationships. Gemini gives freedom for you to keep your individuality and still be in a relationship with them.

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Gemini energy gives variety, countless point of views and opinions to relationships to ensure it’s not one-sided and remains multi-faceted. Gemini brings fun to boring routine’s in relationships. Gemini energy forces love to see the Yin and the Yang, making us more open to love in totality. Accepting both good and bad parts of ourselves and our partners.

If a water sign says they love you, it may be manipulative and insincere. If a fire sign say they love you, it may be just out of momentary lust and passion or to get sex from you! If a Gemini says they love you. Congratulations, it’s REAL love!

Stop telling us we don’t know how to be vulnerable or affectionate!

If you’re an air sign reading this, don’t accept the limited interpretation mainstream astrology makes you out to be. Yes, you can be both cerebral and emotional. You can be intelligent, logical, rational and be emotional, empathetic, affectionate and selfless at the same damn time!

We are not one dimensional beings. We are fragments of everything and everyone. Our birth charts can give us an idea of what elements we are lacking. My new astrology channel on YouTube Zodiac Wars main goal is to harness the energy of the elements you lack in your birth chart so that you can become more whole.

I personally lack fire in my chart. I attract fire signs (Aries, Sagittarius, Leo) because I need to learn from them. I need to show my love a little more, I need to be fearless in the face of obstacles blocking my path to accomplishing my goals.

I need fire signs to teach me to be more vulnerable. And I need to teach fire signs how to be lead by true love, not lust, temporary passion, infatuation or sex. I am being taught by fire signs everyday. I am harnessing their energy and becoming a better person. Learn from the energies of other signs to achieve self mastery. That’s what astrological alchemy is all about!

Scorpio is more emotionally detached than Aquarius.

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Yes! I said it. Scorpio’s, the masters of illusion. A Scorpio friend of mines is a champion in world Poker tournaments. Why? He can literally shut off his emotions at the drop of a dime.

He has the power to hide everything he feels in an inner vault no one will ever have access to. He is not naturally vulnerable. He is naturally paranoid. Always sizing up everyone and labeling them as having bad intentions towards him.

He is tit for tat, eye for an eye and will seldomly tell you who he really is or what he really wants. He has few close friends, and is generally cautious about making new friends, unlike the friendly, non-judgmental Aquarius.

Scorpios keep a part of themselves shut off. Who gets access? Not many. Maybe not any! How is it they are labeled an emotional sign when all they do is hide? I find it taxing trying to get close to a Scorpio. It’s a battle some may have the patience and grit to fight for, but not me!

So there you have it. Scorpio is the most emotionally detached, aloof and paranoid zodiac sign! What do you think? Tell me your experience with both air signs and Scorpios… do you agree? Comment below!

Listen to the video on this subject on YouTube Click Here.

By Janell Hihi copyright@2017

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Aquarius Have a Misconception of Intimacy.

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I am known to criticize the downfalls of every sign in the Zodiac and you’d be surprised by how much hate mail I receive from various people who claim I am attacking their sign.

I also receive emails and comments from people who are in complete agreeance with my character analysis of each sign. Regardless, I haven’t clearly pointed out the flaws in my own Zodiac sign.

What the hell is wrong with Aquarius?

Aquarius is fixed and detached. This means we are stubborn and we do not easily conform to anyone or anything. This may appear as a strength but it could breed disloyalty and an inability to commit.

Speaking of commitment, Aquarius feel that if they commit to someone or something completely, they sacrifice their freedom. As an Aquarius, we always think we have to trade in our freedom to be in a relationship.

Aquarius are deliberately ambiguous in our intent because we have no idea what we want most of the time. We just want the freedom to want what we want when we want it without giving an explanation.

Did that confuse you? Well, that’s what Aquarius tend to do…. confuse people.

The lesson all Aquarius must learn is that there is a unique freedom within love itself. Love is freedom. Intimate love is not restrictive, it’s the opposite. It gives us wings.

I talk a good game, and I am aware of my dark, shadow characteristics. However, it is nearly impossible to take my own advice. I can’t comprehend my aversion to closeness, my fear of falling so deeply in love I think I will lose myself.

Aquarius are low-key obsessed with themselves. Our deepest fear is being so entrenched in love, our work, humanitarian efforts, goals, friendships and various projects will fail to be accomplished.

Aquarius doesn’t want to be lost in anything but themselves. That is slightly narcissistic.

Aquarius always remain friendly, yet objective. Open minded, but critical, adventurous but cautious.

We don’t rush to fall in love but we rush into everything else! We hate slowness. We think fast, talk fast, walk fast…

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We are the yin and the yang and there are some Zodiac signs that find that characteristic annoying, indecisive and contradicting.

We remain in the middle, unattached, refusing to take any side. Except when it comes to human rights and equality. Our passion for life and protecting other’s is always made crystal clear.

However, when it comes to love, we harbor a misconception of intimacy. I must admit, love makes me claustrophobic. I dread the responsibility of “Making someone else happy,” and I’d much rather be in a less restrictive relationship where we love each other deeply but there is more of an element of freedom. Not the freedom to cheat, but the freedom to continue to explore our true nature.

Friendship is how Aquarius love. We express our love as a friend and we recognize love only through friendship. When friendship, respect and that air freedom we need is missing, we run away from love.

Aquarius want closeness but they also want freedom. Aquarius want commitment, but they also want ample free time to continue to check off items on their lifelong bucket list.

Unlike any other Zodiac sign, we are not afraid to be alone. The problem is, we get attached to our aloneness and have a difficult time coming out of it.

Aquarius who are single for a long time will have a very hard time adjusting to a relationship.

Aquarius is fixed. We are controlling. Not overtly, but in a manipulative and secretive way. 

Aquarius make awesome sales reps and con artist. We have a mind that can read other’s almost instantly and use that knowledge for good or evil.

Aquarius are very attracted to intelligence. Good looks are great but a lack of intelligence, passion and drive is a COMPLETE turn off to Aquarius.

Aquarius hate strict schedules and routine. This makes it hard for us to stick to long term goals. We can be seen as less serious and unfocused. This is not true in most cases, we just do things our own way and in our own time. To maintain our obsession with freedom.

Other’s see us as weird. We do odd things because we truly are different. The problem is different is not always good.

As soon as we feel smothered, we retreat into ourselves. We get busy doing other things. We need breaks from boring routine often.

Aquarius astrological age is the 2nd childhood. We are close to Pisces, which is the oldest sign in the Zodiac. So, we are like the fun-loving grandparents who spoil their grandchildren rotten. We want to explore, play, nap, eat, and travel.

We are at that pre-elderly stage where we want to do all the things we couldn’t do because we were tied down raising our kids and working. It’s like we are in a mental retirement. This is what makes us artistic, genius and highly imaginative.

On the flipside, we can be cruel, judgment, condescending and overly critical like most people in their mid to late fifties. 

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Aquarius are inconsistent by nature and obsessed with constantly switching things up to keep things interesting. This is why we suck in relationships.

We want to be in love, but not so much in love that we are joined by the hip. We are cowards who run away from closeness with others. If it get’s too deep, we swim to the shore where it’s safe.

We use humor to soothe our pain. Hey, it’s better than using drugs! Sometimes we over do it with joking and don’t know when to stop. Joking when we should be serious. We like to “Appear,” as though we are not hurt, upset with the direction of our lives, or lonely. We enjoy Playing when we should be focused. Daydreaming when we should be working.

We crave change but we are fixed and stubborn. Therefore we are too comfortable in our ways at times and this stunts our spiritual growth as the war inside of continues to rage between fear and courage.

We say things we don’t mean when were angry. We have random, built up, outburst and follow that up with the silent treatment for days or weeks on in.

We repeat ourselves and talk in circles often. Many find this annoying. Especially Scorpios and Virgos. They always point that out to me.

We try to appear too aloof because we’re afraid of rejection. Aquarius will always appear overly nonchalant and casual as a shield to protect themselves from being dependent on other’s approval or affection. It’s really sad.

Please like, share and comment if this resonates with you or an Aquarius you know.

By Janell Hihi

Copyright@2017