After years of self-introspection, I realized I procrastinated and put off my goals and dreams because I suffered from an underlying fear of failure.
Fear of failure is a result of a lack of self-confidence and self-trust.
It’s not about how bad you want it.
It’s about rather you believe in yourself enough to pursue it and complete it.
Consistency is a product of believing in yourself and trusting that you have the skills, knowledge, and tools to accomplish your dreams.
Consistency is believing in yourself every day and every moment. It’s doing what you said you will do regardless of the fearful thoughts that enter your mind.
If you are constantly asking yourself in the back of your mind, “What if this doesn’t work?” This means you don’t believe in yourself enough to fully execute your plan.
When these toxic and negative thoughts creep up, we procrastinate as a result. Sometimes we procrastinate to review our plan repeatedly for possible errors.
Then we procrastinate by making ourselves busy with other things to avoid executing our plan. We use circumstances as an excuse for lack of confidence and fear or failure.
Procrastination is a sign of mental imbalance.
Either you are pursuing a dream that you are not truly passionate about or you lack confidence and fear that it will fail.
It takes maturity to admit that you tried something and you were driven by superficial, egoic outcomes.
If you pursue a dream that can only earn you money but not divine happiness, procrastination will manifest in pursuit of a false dream.
So the next time you find yourself procrastinating, ask yourself the 5 questions below:
- Am I afraid to fail? If so why?
- Am I pursuing a goal or a dream that I am truly passionate about?
- Do I believe in myself enough to be consistent?
- How can I increase my self-confidence? Will Counseling help? A life coach? or Furthering my education?
- What do I expect to achieve mentally and emotionally if I accomplish this goal?
By Janell Hihi Copyright@2017